Unsolicited Advice with Jeremy and Stivi, Episode 20. Letter-sender “Worried” wrote that she and her boyfriend have been together for over three years. Their decision to buy a house revealed a reality about her partner that she didn’t know before. He is financially irresponsible. To make matters worse, they never had the chance to discuss it because every time she tries to bring it up, he shuts down. Everyone always asks when they’re getting married. She does not want to marry into that type of financial carelessness but doesn’t see the need to “out” him to his friends/family either. “What would be the appropriate response when people ask when we are getting married?”